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Anger

Anger The burning anger colors way redder Then the burning coal inside the iron furnace. Image Anger is not just an emotion. This is basically a sum of so many pent up emotions and experiences that burst at once. When you think about those moments during the normal time, the words or actions might seem irrelevant or something a little too extra. Even to yourself. Some times the reason so trivial that we wonder if we could easily ignore it and if there was any reason to really let it out. But only a deep introspection and judgment will let you learn why it was unavoidable at that time.  Sometimes a fit of nasty anger leads the kindest and most sensible man to react in the most violent way possible.  Anger doesn't have a mind of its own. But in the state of anger, our own brain starts to react in the harshest and irresponsible way. In anger, it doesn't think about logic, time, place, or anything. It is a state of mind where one speaks of their inner vulnerabilities. The moments t

Fear

Fear, Fear is the worst enemy of mankind. We all have learned it from the beginning. It is fear that makes us lose sight. In fear, we often lose our judgment. And then there are times, we fail to see our self-worth in fear. Fear gives birth to an inferiority complex in the human mind. We start doubting our capability in fear. Maybe in fear of losing or fear of humiliation. But it is fear that renders us helpless. And then there is this fear of losing that sows the seed of jealousy in our minds. We fear, losing our loved ones, and jealousy plants its roots in our minds. We fear that someone better might replace us in their life. And when this jealousy crosses the limit of innocence, we grow into a beast. We try to cage our most loved person, in fear. In fear of losing them if we leave them free. But the worst outcome of fear is anger. The fear of losing, no matter if it is the position, power, or love turns us into a beast. In our conflict with ourselves, we somewhere turn into

Lock-down diary

Pandemic, We all were introduced to this word through our history books. A global pandemic or an epidemic that appears to human life as a hungry beast, ruining everything under its influence. Spanish Flu, or Cholera all were just a mere chapter of our history book with some really disturbing images of the victims that we always turned over in a hurry. Every time, that we arrived at a chapter like that. Other than the page of history book another place that introduced me with this terrible picture of an epidemic was my Bengali literature book. When I was on the fifth standard. We had this story set on the backdrop of the Cholera Epidemic. And trust me I would cringe every time I had to learn that. While growing up, I read about Plague, again on my history book and the destruction that followed as a result of it in Kolkata.  But, that was it. The epidemic was just an ugly and bitter chapter of history for me. At times which would make me cringe or will make my heart beat loude

Feminism- Do we understand the meaning?

In the modern era, there are few terms that we hear frequently in our day to day life. And if you are someone with an active social media account are more familiar with these kinds of words. Like a few other such popular words or phrases, feminism is a term that is being used in everyday life quite a lot these days. But then, like most of the cases, even Feminism went through its share of controversies that obviously was never fair. Feminism Origin Feminism is the word that was derived from the French word  f éminisme,  which means "Being A Woman" in the late 19th century. But by the end of the 20th century, it gained the meaning "Advocacy of woman rights" . What is Feminism Feminism is a kind of belief where girls or women fight for their rights, equality, and the things that they deserve. It can be for equal respect, equal pay, basic right, the right to keep their opinion, the right to have an identity, and even more the right where they are an ind

Fan Review Of Never Kiss Your Best Friend

[This a fan review of the Zee 5 original series Never Kiss Your Best Friend. I am not a professional critic, so please do consider my mistakes if any.] The series features the Television Heartthrob Nakuul Mehta and Anya Singh as Sumer Singh Dhillon and Tanie Brar. The series is an adaptation of the popular writer Sumrit Shahi’s bestselling novel “Never Kiss Your Best Friend”. The show is a story of two people who meet, become friends and discover life together. The story proceeds in two-time frames. Firstly they introduce us to 27 years old Tanie Brar and Sumer Singh Dhillon, and later we are introduced with their 7 years younger selves in flashback. As Sumer Singh Dhillon and Tanie Brar, Nakuul Mehta, and Anya Singh have been amazing throughout the series. Apart from the main leads, even the supporting cast has been truly amazing. A special mention to Niki Walia for portraying Tanie’s mother in such a brilliant manner. She as a typical desi mom with her amazing Pun

Anger Management ; A need of the hour

The Need Of Anger Management Courses In Today's Life In the fast-paced life of the 21st century and the rat race associated with it, anxiety and stress have turned into our daily companion. The constant stress of meeting deadlines, fulfilling basic needs, the constant stress of being better, or the frustration of being unable to achieve certain things in life ignites the stress which results in anger. And in these difficult situations where anger is something so usual yet a constant threat looming on our head, Anger Management programs has turned into our saviors these days. Anger management is a psycho-therapeutic program for anger prevention and control that helps us to deal with various anger-related issues successfully.  But before knowing about anger management let's find out a few details about the devil, Anger. But what is anger?       It's no alien or any demon. It's a natural and hormonal response to potential biological threats cause by stress